Sending Sympathy Thank You Cards
Losing a loved one is never easy. It is the support and love of friends and family that helps us get through this difficult time. If you would like to thank those who stood by you and assisted you through your loved one’s cremation services in Belvidere, IL , you might consider sending sympathy thank you cards.
What Are Sympathy Thank You Cards?
Also called funeral thank you cards, sympathy thank you cards are a thoughtful way to express gratitude to those who offered their condolences and helped you in your time of need. They may have done this by:
- Making a donation to the charity you named
- Sending flowers to the funeral or your home
- Donating to the funeral expenses
- Brought you meals
- Watched your children
- Helped around the house
You can send these cards to anyone you wish, no matter how big or small their helpful gesture was. Everyone will also appreciate a kind word sent to them in the mail.

What Do I Write?
To start off, make sure you include the recipient’s name. This could begin with “Dear (name).” Next, you will add the “thank you” portion of the note. Don’t worry if you are not sure what to write. Sometimes, even though we may feel gratefulness in our hearts, it may be difficult to put into words. Luckily, you don’t have to be a great poet and you don’t even have to write much at all. It truly is the thought and the time you are taking that the people receiving the cards will appreciate.
Some examples you could write are:
- “Thank you so much for your generous donation. We are so grateful to have friends like you in our lives.”
- “Thank you for the flowers you sent. They truly brought some light and happiness to our family.”
- “Thank you so much for your kind words and condolences. Your thoughtful words were appreciated and comforting.”
After the “thank you” portion, you will want to add a closing sentence such as “You are a wonderful friend.”
The last thing is to sign your name. Most people will add something such as “All my love”, “Take care” or “Sincerely” before signing their name but you certainly don’t have to.
When to Send the Cards
Typically, sending the cards out within two to three weeks of the services is best. However, with that being said, sometimes this doesn’t happen. If it has been longer, don’t rule out sending the cards. Your recipients will appreciate the token of gratitude no matter how long it takes to get to them. Also, your friends are going to understand if the cards take a little longer and are not going to judge you.
Tip: If you have a lot of people to send cards to and feel yourself getting overwhelmed, simply split the list into smaller lists. Then, just tackle one list at a time. You can also recruit other family members to help.
After your loved one’s cremation services in Belvidere, IL, sending out these cards not only acts as a nice token to those who supported you but can also be a healing project as it gives you something positive to focus on.








